Fetish Etiquette

A fetish club is an environment that encourages the exploration of one’s sexuality, but there are also strict codes of conduct within fetish clubs.  Touching anyone without their expressed permission and any form of harassment of any kind is strictly forbidden.  In general, fetish clubs are the safest, friendliest and most relaxed club environments.  They are places where people of all genders can dress up and be themselves without the fear of harassment; help us to keep it this way.

TG is a safe and consensual event with respect at the core of the Club.  The Club operates a zero-tolerance policy towards anyone who cannot behave appropriately, it’s your responsibility to make sure you are armed with this info and behave appropriately if you are a first time visitor, if you have any questions, just ask!  (check our Etiquette & Dresscode and FAQs for more information on this).Dresscode

The TG dress code strives to avoid narrow limitations and encourage individual imagination and diversity.  A modern fetish club is more about fantasy and transformation than just rubber and leather, and many of the best outfits seen at TG are made by those wearing them or assembled from various second-hand articles (i.e. theatrical costume or uniforms). So, if you can’t afford expensive latex or leather costumes then explore personal fantasies and use your imagination, or even try body paint!  Please always remember that if your outfit wouldn’t turn heads in the street – don’t bother to wear it to Torture Garden.   (although you’re welcome to bring your outfit in a bag and get changed in the club).

We have a list of definite “no’s”, so make sure you take the time to really think about what you will wear to the club to avoid disappointment and being turned away on the night…For more info and inspiration check out our dresscode page, blog and gallery.

There is no such thing as “too much” at TG, we are a home for people to push their boundaries and be the most extreme version of themselves…so step outside of your everyday persona and think about who you could be but don’t dare to be in your everyday life!

At all events we have our house and dungeon rules posted around the venue; these are very basic and easy to follow.

We want to ensure everyone has a safe and respectful environment to play in. If you have an incident to report, our staff and dungeon monitors are on hand throughout the evening and can be spotted by their ZDR lanyard, armband or sash.

The rules are:

-NO touching without asking

-Give others space

-NO means NO, do not bother someone after they’ve said no to you.

-Clean up after yourself/your scene, there are tissues and wipes available

-Be respectful

-Do not interrupt a scene

-If you’re not sure, ask!

Anyone who goes against these rules can be asked to leave.